Question: Will their be anything good after the deepest depths of sadness? How long will it take? What should I do when I want happiness? Will those scars ever heal?
Okay Okay..... You might be wondering this question is simple to answer and most people know what to do about it... Yeah but did you know that their is a deeper meaning to all of this at end... We all had that time where we are really down in dumps or just depressed... As growing adults its common for us to have that... Well basically it's part of growing up... But we always try to solve the problem by keeping it off our mind or trying to distract ourselves with different recreations to do so. But sometimes when it goes back again and this scars open up to reveal the wound.... People say the best way to get rid of it is "TIME"... which I agree, but I don't think time is the only ingredient to feel better in oneself... I always say that you need "Time, Listeners, Recreation, and Knowing Oneself"... This are the keys (I know it sounds horrible but trust me in this....)
TIME- is a basic tool for healing those scars. This gives a basis and foundation to oneself and ability to give you the opportunities for improving relationships, healing wounds, or improving oneself. But sometimes time can backfire for able to prolong the agony if not used wisely... People say you have another chance but really time is precious use it wisely.
LISTENERS- you maybe asking "What the frick do you mean by that?" Well, I mean people who are willing to listen to your problems... It could be family, friends, and even strangers (Omeagle... *ehem*) But, this is important because you are able to release your emotions to someone and they will give comfort and advice to your problems when you need it... But 2 factors in this is 1.)Who do you want to say it too? 2.)Being open to others and how others react to you.... This factors is a must because you won't just say it like as soon as you see a person select the right people who is willing to listen to you... Hey even a complete stranger is willing if they have time.... Don't worry also of being a burden just ask if they said "yes" then just go... But "no" it means they have to much things to do.... The second factor is openness you must be able to personify your emotions to others for they will be able to understand what is your problem..... You have do share it if you want others to help you.
RECREATION- This means anything that you like to do sports, hobby, or maybe food.... This helps you keep your mind occupied and see a bright side by making you happy with comfort.....
KNOWING ONESELF- This is basically "you". You are the only one capable of ending your sadness.... If you keep wallowing about grief and pain then you will experience grief and pain..... It is the hardest to control emotions but knowing oneself give you faith in you to overcome this problem... This is really important because:
"At the end of the day it's you who will decide whether or not, I should be happy or just remain sad until I feel like it..."
LOVE LOVE PART OF THE QUESTION:
This is maybe too obvious and you probably guess what will this come too and its breakups, friendzoned, and relationships. Look whether or not you had a relationship or not we all have received the pain of rejection and not being mutual to the person we love... Which is hard to believe because it gives the perception that we're perfect for each other. Then you find out it was all just lie... This is an emotional blow because love is like The 3rd Newton Law (nerdy...) "To every action there is always an equal and opposite reaction: or the forces of two bodies on each other are always equal and are directed in opposite directions." Meaning that the amount of happiness and joy you receive about love is equal to the pain if love ever counteracts... I know its a bit technical but that's how love works mostly.. You can just be happy and always getting benefits without getting hurt... Every rose has it thorns.... We just need to be ready on whatever happens in our love life and not control our whole life... Because really it does plague you in everything...
SHARING LOVE PROBLEM THAT RELATES TO THE QUESTION:
This happened 2 years ago, their was a girl I really liked... We bonded pretty quickly. We had the same interest, same attitude, and even sense of humor that we really link so well.... That even other people say we're perfect for each other... We always talk on the phone and text everyday back then.... Had name callings that couples use... I always treated her special compared to everyone else for she knows how much she means to me... She does the same way also... Giving gifts, sharing problems, and many more stuff... We go out to watch movies and eat then bond... We are basically so close that we are almost like we're together... People viewed it that way and people recognized us that "Power Couple" in the hallway... But at the end we weren't mutual to one another... She told me she loves someone else and this could never be.... I was crushed and that was the end of the School year when she said it... The whole summer I was mad and miserable that I even cry while I'm sleeping that took an impact to me... I tried to contact and stuff but it wasn't the same and we just got even more distance to each other... I tried to give myself time but I found out it took me longer like 5 months until i said I'm over her.... I tried talking to my closest friends about it and they said that I did my best and their is someone else out their for me and also said the problems both of us which did give me an idea of change.... I did recreations like going out with friends, studying, hobbies, and even eating which slightly helped.... But while it was still premature I've made dumb moves because of being blinded on my emotions that it took over me.... But at the end I just needed to talk to myself and I said to myself "Will that be over just because 1 girl turned you down?" I realized that I can't let one girl ruin my life and I should look on the bright side... That's when everything started looking better for me that it actually improved me... I've meet an even more beautiful and more caring girl than her... Though currently brotherzoned but still its alot better because I get to be close to her...
Moral to this is: "Love is like the whether starts of sunny when you're happy, but it rains when you're sad, but after the rain there will be Rainbow showing that their is something beautiful at the end of the pain..."
SONG TIME!!!
Yet again its Adventure time (Big fan... sorry) But wait this time it's two songs! The reason why is this two songs are the same and played in the same episode... This relates because the sad one is played first and then a happy one is played after that which gives a chance for looking in the bright side of love...
So here are the songs:
"All Gummed Up Inside"
I can't keep pushing this down any deeper,
Why do I keep trying if I can't keep her?
Every move I make,
Is just another mistake,
I wonder what it would take,
Because it feels like there's a hole inside my body,
Like there's a hole inside my heart.
It's like this feeling is gonna consume me,
if I keep waiting for this thing to start.
Oh, I feel like I'm all gummed up inside,
It's like I'm all gummed up inside,
It's like I'm all gummed up insi-i-de.... I-i-ide.
Link for the 1st song is here!
"All Warmed Up Inside" (Their are two versions of this song in the lyrics....)
| Oh, Flame Princess,
I think you're rad. (I like your dress.) I really wanna kiss you, (You're like a beautiful treasure,) Right in front of your dad. (I wanna open your chest.) |
| 'Cause I think you're great,
I wanna be your mate, or maybe go on a date. |
| 'Cause it feels like there's a fire inside my body,
Like there's a fire inside my heart. It's like this fire is gonna consume me, If I keep waiting for this thing to start. |
| Ohh, I feel like I'm all warmed up inside,
I feel all warmed up inside, I feel all warmed up insi-i-i-i-de... |
Link to 2nd Song The Original Version!!!
Link to 2nd Song Rebecca Sugar cover!!!
Yeah, I know Finn doesn't really get over PB until the end of the episode so but at the end he got over her and now he has a new love interest....
But anyway guys hoped you enjoy this very long post! Hope to see you again!!!
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